LIFE AFTER DEATH

I’ve written so many blogs now on various different aspects of grief and how i have coped ( and not coped!!!), I’ve written posts specifically about Mum and I’ve written posts about the life changing impact losing a loved one can have. This blog has been one of my coping mechanisms ( there has also been lots of wine!!) and I can truthfully say that mumsgone.com has been fundamental for my healing. At times I have tried to outrun my grief, that ended in tears. Running away from any difficult situation never solves it.. but sometimes the grief was so overpowering it was almost impossible to cope with…There were extremely dark days!!! Grief at times seems to be be such a long and drawn out process.. never ending…

6 years ago Mum died… and I have written this without crying.. Yes I’m still gutted, I still miss her and I would do anything for a hug from her but I can get through the days ( most days)without crying and I suppose I’ve learnt to live MY LIFE (or adapt my life) AFTER MUMS DEATH..